My Story: Reinvention in Action
When I sold my company, I had no idea what was next. At 53, I wasn’t ready to “retire” in the traditional sense, but I also knew I didn’t want to go back to running another business in the same way.
At first, I joked about retirement, telling people I’d be spending my days sitting on a deck, looking at the mountains, wearing a big hat. But as I kept repeating this story, I realized it wasn’t just a joke—it was a vision.
That dream of the mountains wasn’t new. It had been tucked away in the back of my mind since I was 19, when I first fell in love with Colorado’s San Juan Mountains. For years, it had been just that—a dream, one I never thought I’d actually pursue.
But after selling my company, I started asking myself, “Why not?” Why shouldn’t I find a piece of land, build something new, and create a different kind of life for myself?
So I did. I found the perfect piece of land, built my home, and in doing so, discovered my Nxt purpose—helping others navigate their own life transitions.
How to Start Your Reinvention Journey
Step 1: Engage in Deep Self-Reflection
What does a fulfilling next chapter look like for you? Take time to assess your personal and professional satisfaction. What’s missing? What have you always wanted to do but never pursued?
If you’re feeling stuck, try this exercise: Physically turn your body slightly to one side. You don’t have to make a big move…just adjust your angle about 10%. What do you see now? How does this slight adjustment affect your vision? This small movement serves as a reminder that shifting your perspective even a little bit—literally or figuratively—can open you up to new possibilities.
Step 2: Set Intentional, Achievable Nxt Steps
Reinvention doesn’t happen in big leaps. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by a major life change, focus on small, consistent steps.
If you want to start a business, begin by reaching out to three contacts in your industry. If you want to write a book, start with a single page. Small steps builds momentum, making change feel manageable instead of daunting.
Step 3: Cultivate a Supportive Network
Surround yourself with “possibility thinkers.” Those folks who push you out of your comfort zone, who think about (and do) cool things, and invite you along. Or, invest in yourself through a retreat like The Immersion to help you realize what’s really important to you and help you step into your Nxt dream.
One of the biggest mistakes people make during reinvention is trying to go it alone. Having people who support and encourage your growth is essential.
Step 4: Commit to Lifelong Learning
The most successful reinventions come from a curious mindset. Whether it’s taking a class, attending a workshop, or developing a new skill, ongoing learning keeps you energized.
Sign up for a course, listen to an industry podcast, or read books on topics that interest you. Expanding your knowledge opens doors to new possibilities you may not have even considered.
Step 5: Take Small Actions Toward Making A Change
Instead of waiting for the “perfect moment,” start taking action today.
If you dream of moving to a new city, spend a weekend there to see if it feels like the place you want to live. If you want to change careers, schedule an informational interview with someone in your desired field.
Taking small, actions builds confidence and makes bigger decisions easier over time.
What’s Next for You?
Reinvention isn’t about finding one final dream—it’s about continuously evolving, dreaming, and discovering. You get more than one big dream in your lifetime. If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain about what’s next, remember: reinvention doesn’t happen in one fell swoop, it’s a journey.
So ask yourself: What’s my Next?
If you’re looking for one-on-one guidance, The Immersion is a retreat at my private ranch that can be the start of your reinvention journey. Book a consultation with me and let’s talk about what is next for you.
